I felt like I always had to make an effort to make plans with one of my best friends because she was never like "hey let's go get coffee." I always had to coordinate something and she would accept it she wasn't busy. So, I decided to try something out. She lives in my hometown so I always try to plan something out when I am home. Last time I went home, I told her in advance that I would be in for the weekend, and I waited to see if she asked me to hang out. And, of course, nothing. So I decided to try it again another weekend when I came home, and she finally at the last minute told me she missed me and wanted to hang out while I was home... Okay cool, but here comes the fun part. She wanted to hang out Sunday morning after her boyfriend left to go to work. So I basically had to wait around all morning before I even saw my best friend.
Single ladies, we do not deserve to be treated as a back up option. Life is too short to be waiting around for people who don't give a single crap about you. Leave them where they lay and move on. Then maybe someday, they will come around. Still waiting for that day. If someone does not make time for you, you shouldn't make time for them. Their loss. Don't ever think you aren't good enough for someone, because you are all perfect the way you are, and don't let anyone tell you differently.
I hope you all had a wonderful weekend, and that maybe some of you can relate to this type of thing!
xo,
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